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   Mooney | Jun 20, 2006 09:43pm | #1

   This is the best I have of them both so Robbi got in it .

   Tim

   
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   mizshredder2 | Jun 21, 2006 01:23am | #2

   Tks for posting the info and the pic...man; this is just sad sad sad.DUM SPIRO SPERO:  "While I breathe I hope"

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   Mooney | Jun 21, 2006 06:59am | #4

   Ive been thinking about it all day. Robbi and I discussed it at lunch again. We cant imagine how bad its gotta be  and how much to grasp that would be . Our hearts really go out to Dan . Its so devastating .

   Tim

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   DanT | Jun 21, 2006 01:31pm | #5

   We are home now and working through the process.  Funny where support in life comes from.  Of all the people we have receieved little notes and support from this board has had the most by double.  Thank you all.

   My injuries are such it is tough to type so I will be brief.  Here is the obituary for those who are interested http://www.snyderfuneralhomes.com/obituaries/obit_view.phtml?id=5018

   Instead of flowers, cards etc. if you want to do something in my wifes memory find the local chapter of foster children for your county and drop them a few bucks.  She worked every year at a Christmas gathering for them and organizing all the foster children in our county for a big Christmas bash with presents, tree, santa etc.  Did it all on her own so there is no real place to send money.  So if you chose do it locally.  Kids with a rough time were here real concerns. 

   We are doing well.  My son has been a rock for me and is driving me around, providing tissues as needed.  We have a lot to get done in the next few days so I won't be here but thank you all again for you thoughts and support.  We are marching on.  I miss my friend and partner but am grateful for 24 years of a great marriage.  Something some never find.  DanT

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   butch | Jun 21, 2006 02:00pm | #6

   Thank you for sharing that.....My heart is truly broken, and I can not imagine the heart acheyou are going through. You and your son will be in my prayers.

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   Mooney | Jun 21, 2006 05:04pm | #7

   Thanks for making the information on this thread complete .

   You will be in our thoughts and prayers as you know. I wish there was something I could do. If there is a time that you want to talk or get away we are here and again you dont need an invitation.

   Tim

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   BUIC | Jun 21, 2006 06:22pm | #8

      Dan, In your wifes memory, Little Flower Childrens' Services of long island will be recieving a donation. 

      You and your family will be in our prayers....Buic

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   IMERC | Jun 21, 2006 09:29pm | #9

   Done...Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming<!----><!----><!---->

   WOW!!! What a Ride!<!----><!---->

   Forget the primal scream, just ROAR!!!

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   calvin | Jun 23, 2006 01:38am | #10

   Dan, you know joyce and I were saddened by the news.  There's been talk among several of us of what we can do in her memory.  And while a local contribution could work for many, some of us are thinking something in your home town would be especially nice.  It was with that thought that I posted this at Quittin'time.  We would be honored to be a receptical for any donations people think would find a good home in Marion, Oh.  We'll see what comes to pass from this, but know that any contributions in Jan's memory will be sent down to you.

   We at QT have done this before for a worthy cause.  Those of you that know me, trust me.  Thank you.

   Folks, Jan Tripp, the wife of Dan Tripp (DanT), one of our buddies at Breaktime, passed away this past Sunday. Many of his Friends have asked about doing something in her remembrance. While the memorial hasn't been chosen yet, we here at QT are opening our Paypal feature so that those of you that wish to do so, can make a donation. We'll take the proceeds and probably give them to Dan to place in a memorial of the families choice. Please note the donation to Jan Tripp. We'd like to include your name in a card, but will respect your wishes of anonymity if you so choose.If you want to join in, look for the Paypal Donate button on the bottom of the page at Quittin'time.  We've placed this post in a folder you can respond to without registering.We would also be accepting donations in check form at our Post Office Box. Make check payable to Quittintime and we'll make sure it gets to the Tripp family. I suppose you can make it out to Dan Tripp if you so wish, I'll make sure he gets it.Thanks,calvinQuittintimep.o. box 351,Maumee, Ohio 43537-0351

   Jan Tripp MemorialA great place for Information, Comraderie, and a sucker punch.

   Remodeling Contractor just outside the Glass City.

   Quittin' Time

    

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   MikeSmith | Jun 23, 2006 03:38am | #11

   calvin... that's cool !Mike Smith Rhode Island : Design / Build / Repair / Restore

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   calvin | Jun 23, 2006 03:50am | #13

   She was a sweetheart as I'm sure you know from the fest.  From what Dan has told us, people will remember her.  What this does is maybe do one more of her good deeds.  Maybe it'll touch someone she hadn't had a chance to.  Whatever, lets just keep this up on the board so people can see it.  Maybe Tim can even restart or move it out of the Tavern for those members that have sworn off the drink.A great place for Information, Comraderie, and a sucker punch.

   Remodeling Contractor just outside the Glass City.

   Quittin' Time

    

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   DanT | Jun 23, 2006 03:40am | #12

   Thank you for the kind and generous response.  Let's see what course it takes and we will go from there.

   Today the last prison facility my wife worked at (2 years ago a the personell director) had a memorial service for her.  All of the local facilities (3) had flags at half staff.  The other facility has had a grief counciler team on hand for all shifts.  Talk about someone who made a dent in their profession. 

   We are well and tommorow start the public portion of it all.  I have already said goodbye in my heart but know that giving the public and family their oppurtunity is needed.  Long couple of days ahead with many tears to be shed I am sure. 

   I am starting to heal a bit but still can't lay down and sleep or anything so a few more weeks of not tieing my own shoes are probably on the menu.  I think my son is tired of putting deoderant on my left arm pit since I can't lol.  Thank you all again.  I have recieved no more moral support from anywhere than from here.  DanT

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   calvin | Jun 23, 2006 03:53am | #14

   Best of luck Dan, to you and your son and the rest of the family.  Remember as you mourn her passing, to celebrate her life you all were lucky to be a part of.A great place for Information, Comraderie, and a sucker punch.

   Remodeling Contractor just outside the Glass City.

   Quittin' Time

    

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    Gunner | Jun 23, 2006 04:23am | #15

      Hang tough. One day at a time.

     

     

    Rock the Tipi!

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    draftguy | Jun 23, 2006 05:54pm | #23

    It's a small world. I'm assuming your wife was working at Marion Correctional. I was with a firm that did drawings for a new walk-in freezer for the inmate's kitchen. Remember going there a couple of times to do measuring and take some photos. It was a completely different world in there, and a memorable experience.Again, my sincere condolences.

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    DanT | Jun 24, 2006 05:49am | #26

    No, she worked at the kids prison.  I was the maintenance super at Marion Correctional in the 80's-early 90's though.  DanT

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    Mooney | Jun 23, 2006 04:40am | #16

    That was a very nice thing for you to do .

    To be honest I had trouble with where to put this thread. As Rez kids me a lot , every thread I start in the wrong section gets moved here it seems . I always like it somewhere else for everyone to see . I nearly put it in the fest folder, but that wouldnt be honest and I didnt think this was a subject to do that .  And Dan started it here . So I dont know if it would be better served somewhere else .

    Tim

    Edited 6/22/2006 9:46 pm by Mooney

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    calvin | Jun 23, 2006 05:46am | #17

    Tim, I understand.  The fest folder popped in my head too.  Didn't want to be disrespectful even tho like I mentioned earlier, amid the grieving there is a place for the celebration of a friends life. 

    thanks.A great place for Information, Comraderie, and a sucker punch.

    Remodeling Contractor just outside the Glass City.

    Quittin' Time

     

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    torn | Jun 23, 2006 05:59am | #18

    I don't know you, Dan, and I can't even imagine the pain you're feeling, but know that you have the thoughts, prayers and sympathies of my wife and I...

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    DougU | Jun 23, 2006 06:01am | #19

    Dan

    I'm sorry for your lose

    The three of you will be in my prayers and the Travis County Foster Care Program will be a benifactor of a gift in your wifes memory.

    Doug

     

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    AaronRosenthal | Jun 23, 2006 08:09am | #20

    Dan, my wife & I have been foster/adoptive parents for 20 years.
    I'll make sure the Christmas party this year has a donation from us in her name.
    On the Christmas toy ride in October this year, my son and I will have an extra toy in her name.All the best for you. When you come to Vancouver, we'll go for a ride.Quality repairs for your home.

    AaronR ConstructionVancouver, Canada

     

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    BobKovacs | Jun 23, 2006 01:22pm | #21

    Man, I don't know how I missed this thread over the past two days, but I was in shock when I found it this morning.   I can't tell you how sorry I am for your loss.

    Today is actually the third anniversary of the day my father passed away, so in a lesser sense, I feel what you're going though.  It gets easier as time goes on- trust me.

    All the best,

    Bob

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    Mooney | Jun 23, 2006 05:33pm | #22

    "Today is actually the third anniversary of the day my father passed away, so in a lesser sense, I feel what you're going though.  It gets easier as time goes on- trust me."

    That was the thought process I had or one of them as Ive been doing quite a bit of thinking about Dan.

    Ive lost a Father and Brother . I missed them badly. I used to think about my Brother all the time . We were pretty close  and I was lucky enough to have a great dad .

    Anyway, I saw the family doc at the service station and his take on Dad was he had a good life and and a long one . Somehow that brought some peace to me but didnt on my Brother.

    I know it hapens all the time but I cant grasp losing a partner in life. That brings a new meaning to devastating and to add to that  before their time .

    I used to be with a nurse that took care of kids. Babies mostly in a nursing home. She loved her work till one died and she would just crash over it . She also had older people in another wing and she became what I call the floor RPN of three wings, so she knew all the patients. She had the outlook of the family doctor over the old people but never learned to handle the babies. I feel that way about Jan and my Brother . If my memory serves me correctly Jan was 44 , and my brother was 49. Way too young in my view point although I know it happens all the time as I read it in the papers, but it makes it hard for the loved ones to accept . 

     

    Tim

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    andybuildz | Jun 24, 2006 01:18pm | #32

    Dan amd ALL
    Katrina and I will be setting up a memorial table at TipiFest.
    We'd like anyone with photos, written words, etc etc to please bring or send them along in August.
    Be well
    Namaste'
    andy and katrinaIf Blodgett says, Tipi tipi tipi it must be so!

    TipiFest 06~~> Send me your email addy for a Paypal invoice to the greatest show on earth~~>[email protected]

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   DanT | Jun 24, 2006 11:30pm | #38

   All went well at the service.  The message was just as I wanted, a brief, happy, upbeat chat with examples of cute funny things about my wife.   A few sentimental moments the minister got from her friends the I broke down to but it really was great.

   At the cementary all of course went well and for the first time I found out that being the lead dog in those precetions was a good thing.  It doesn't seem to take near as much time as if you are sitting at a cross street waiting on one to go by lol. 

   Thank you all again.  I am sure the emotional battle isn't over and you may see some moodiness for awhile but I really appreciate the support and love shown during my time of need.  Thank you one and all from the bottom of my heart. DanT

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   dieselpig | Jun 25, 2006 12:28am | #39

   You're a warrior Dan.  It's so good to hear you talking the way you are.  I'm sure you have your moments, and that's only natural, but you really seem to have a healthy outlook on this whole tragedy and that's a blessing.  You're some kind of tough, dude.

   As far as you're moodiness.  Well we're used to that.  ;)View Image

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   DanT | Jun 25, 2006 01:33am | #40

   If you have seen the amount of times I have cried tough may not be a word you would use. 

   I thought I would be bitter.   But frankly I realized that I had 24 years with the love of my life, some never have any.  Hard to beat.  She loved me and I knew that.....every day.  Hard to beat.  She gave me a son that through all this was my leaning post and confidaunt and as good as any man I have dealt with as far as getting me through the decisions of it all.  Hard to beat.

   She was respected, well loved, kind, warm, genuine all in a world that tends to look down on those that are.  And she told everyone that asked it was becaause of me.  How all that goes together I can't tell you but I can tell you I am grateful for the privlage of my time spent with her.   So tough, no.  Gratefull. Yes.  DanT

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   dieselpig | Jun 25, 2006 01:38am | #41

   You're the bomb dude.View Image

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   DougU | Jun 25, 2006 05:29am | #42

   Dan

   I remember you telling the story of meeting the father of the quarterback on your sons football team.

   You said that he mentioned he had to much to drink and your son wouldn't let him have the keys to his car, offered a bed or ride home, don't remember which.

   That story has always stuck with me, and I would guess that you weren't the only one responsible for your sons actions on that day/evening.

   Your wife must have been very special, must have touched many lives, and for that I'd say that you are a very lucky man.

   Take care

   Doug 

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   BossHog | Jun 25, 2006 01:59pm | #44

   Don't know that I can add thoughts of great depth or anything like that. Just wanted you to know that one more Breaktimer is behind you and wishes you well.
   Sometimes you go fishing to catch fish; Sometimes you go fishing just to fish.

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   JeffBuck | Jun 21, 2006 01:52am | #3

   thanks, Tim.

   Jeff

       Buck Construction

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   Sasquatch | Jun 23, 2006 06:01pm | #24

   Sorry I missed this thread.  My heartfelt condolences.  Be strong.

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   Luka | Jun 24, 2006 01:05am | #25

   Bump
   Only slightly faster than the speed of stupid, since 1957.

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   DanT | Jun 24, 2006 06:00am | #27

   All went well with the showing.  We were able to have an open casket, she didn't look perfect due to swelling but pretty good.  Beautiful to me of course.

   We displayed some of her football outfits and some of my sons jerseys and helmet.   And my sister in law, who I am not wild about, did an outstanding job on a CD that had pictures of her from childhood to current.

   7-800 people!  Amazing amount.  From all over the state.  Even the 2 department heads of Dept of Corrections and Dept of Youth service came.  Never heard of one for an instutional level employee let alone both.

   Son had numerous college and high school team mates show.  Many people from around the state who my wife had helped through the years showed.  Some football parents from College ball, 2 drove 2+ hours.

   And.......Gunner and Jeff Buck and family.  Such a nice gesture.  I can't express the emotion I felt just to have them show.  I never figured, planned, expected, wanted or anything else anyone to.  And I viewed the whole thing as a deal I needed to do for the family.  But I was elated by them coming.  Thank you both from the bottom of my heart.  My son still is amazed at the support and warmth from this site.  I am too.

   Tommorow is the service and the final day.  I will be glad and exhausted when it is over.  My shoulder is giving my problems and the doctor called and wants to see me after viewing the xrays.  I hope to get that and the legal issues strait by the end of the week.  Thanks again for the concern and support.  DanT

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   Mooney | Jun 24, 2006 06:14am | #28

   Thank you sir for sharing that !

   Tim

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   Luka | Jun 24, 2006 06:20am | #29

   You are still in my prayers, friend.
   Only slightly faster than the speed of stupid, since 1957.

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   mizshredder2 | Jun 24, 2006 06:50am | #30

   7-800 people!  Amazing amount.

   Somehow Dan, that doesn't surprise me at all.

   Thanks for sharing and keeping us posted on how you're doing.

   Hang in there and hope the shoulder gets better soon!

    DUM SPIRO SPERO:  "While I breathe I hope"

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   davidmeiland | Jun 24, 2006 06:51am | #31

   Dan, I went into shock when I read of this. I am so, so sorry. It brings tears to my eyes just thinking about it.

   >>And.......Gunner and Jeff Buck and family

   Gentlemen, that is incredibly cool. We're proud of ya'.

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   DonK | Jun 24, 2006 04:59pm | #33

   Dan -

   I've tried to write this three or four times over the last few days. It's odd how the words don't flow, but the tears do.

   Every time that I look at or think of Mooney's picture of Jan, it makes me more and more sorry that I never got to meet this beautiful woman. Just looking at the picture, you can see she was an angel on earth - so very special to you and many, many others.

   I hope you find the strength and comfort that you need in the days ahead. Know that Jan's in a better place, and she will always be in your heart. Bless you

   Don K.

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   Gunner | Jun 24, 2006 05:05pm | #34

     Had I known that Buck thinks like I do we could have gotten together. But that's not what it was about.  Shocked the heck out of me when he called an hour after I left and said that he had just missed me. But then again I should have figured.  We did it for the same reasons.

     We love you Dan. It's not expected, or given, it just is. We're family. Like I said yesterday  I couldn't type it to you, I had to give it to you. It was a good hug. And you can't get that through a screen. A lot of guys sent that.

     Whatever.It's yours. Love Rick

    

    

   Rock the Tipi!

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   MikeSmith | Jun 24, 2006 05:12pm | #35

   rick?... who the heck is rick ?

   good show , you two !Mike Smith Rhode Island : Design / Build / Repair / Restore

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   Gunner | Jun 24, 2006 05:16pm | #36

     He's that other guy that hangs out with me. Rasta Honky wanted to go. But the wife caught him before he got in the car, and made him stay at home.

    

    

   Rock the Tipi!

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   KirkG | Jun 24, 2006 09:03pm | #37

   So sorry to hear of your loss. While I don't know you well, I have appreciated your posts. I cannot begin to fathom your loss, but I feel for you none the less. Best to you and your family as you go through this difficult time.Kirk Grodske

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   JeffBuck | Jun 25, 2006 08:02am | #43

   Hey Buddy ... we're back safe at home.

   just got to watch the UFC on Spike TV ... Corey fell asleep but he's awake now as I just tried to carry him up to bed ... so got a 4 yr old and cartoons in the background ...

   anyways ... I dunno ... like Gunner said ... same thing I told your kid ... just seemed like the right thing to do. You've given me more than one email fulla good advice.

   I'm glad we made the drive ... but I know I was short on words ... after Cath's Mom died when she was pregnant with Corey ... funeral home really knock the wind outta me. I'm glad I straightened up by the time the long line wound down to you at the front ... as I was crying like a baby at the other end ... I needed each and ever step to get ahold of myself.

   I took one glance at the TV screen .. saw a pic of Jan and Dan Jr as a small child ... and that was enough. I'm thinking I am plenty tough ... but let me tell U something my Dad said more than once ... real men DO cry!

   Man ... seeing her ... with her baby ... too much for me. I started noticing real quick the nice trim details and plaster crown that place had ... really a nice room! Literally 2 seconds on that screen was enough ... otherwise U would have been comforting me.

   I was listening to the gentlemen behind us in line ... coupla workers from the prison. Guy directly behind me ... big overmuscled black dude ... kept telling the guy/girl behind him ... "Now don't U start ... I'm here to be the strong one ... don't U start crying ... cause I gotta go in front of "Mr Dan" and present myself well!

   I thot that was great! Someone asked if he was going back to work ... "Hell No" ... "I can't ... I'm gonna be terrible ... can't have my boys see me all messed up ... I'll lose all cred!" ...

   I figured he was a prison guard ... who obviously respected Jan ... and didn't want his inmates to see him at such a weak moment ...

    

   I am glad we did get to have a few brief minutes to chat. Cath was a trooper ... first I was planning on driving up solo ... but she insisted on coming along. After her Mom's funeral ... she knows how much it means. I am truely sorry for you and your sons loss buddy. Wish I could do more than that hug I gave ... but that's all I got.

   and I got more when U need more.

    

   U and your son ... what ever U need ...

    

   Jeff, Cathy and Corey.    Buck Construction

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